Stephen Ministries is about spiritual caregiving for people in crisis. As people’s lives have become more mobile and fragmented, and separated from family, many have looked to their churches for help in times of need.

We have several commissioned Stephen Ministers. These volunteers receive in-depth training that enables them to extend the reach of pastoral care, giving our congregation a real, vibrant way to connect with one another in an intimate way during troubling times.

As we tell our fellowship, "You are not alone. If you are grieving, working through an illness, handling a trauma . . . we can help." If you or someone you know may need a compassionate Christian to listen and help you to walk through a life transistion, call the church office for more information.

To learn more about this ministry, call the Church Office 608-362-4821 and speak to Paula Phillips or click the Stephen Ministries logo below.

Most people are much more open to giving care than to receiving it. When a person is giving care, he or she is in a position of strength, stability, and authority. When a person is receiving care, he or she is acknowledging weakness, insecurity and vulnerability.

As a result, there are countless people today who, though they really could benefit from a Christian friend who would listen and care for them, instead tough it out on their own. They remain the strong silent type, or wear a smile across a face that is holding back a flood of tears. Society encourages this (particularly for men). To ask for help is to admit weakness. To show weakness is to admit inferiority.

But God did not create us to be independent. We were created to be interdependent. God's Word is clear on this all the way back to Genesis: "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." (Genesis 2:18) The New Testament underscores this theme with more than 50 verses that include the words "one another." These verses include admonitions such as "love one another," "build up one another," and "pray for one another."

What these verses don't say is that only we are to love, encourage, build up, and pray for other people. The "one another" wording gives them a reciprocal meaning. It also tells us that we are to allow other people to love, encourage, build up, and pray for us!

It is most difficult for people to ask for help. Whether it is because of guilt, shame, inadequacy, or fear of rejection, many would much prefer to suffer alone than ask for help.

But suffering alone is not God's intention for us. Jesus promises, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) We can receive this promised rest when we turn to one another for comfort and help.

Our Stephen Ministers know all about receiving care. Many of them have been on the receiving end of care at an earlier point in their lives--something that has motivated them to give care now. They know how difficult it is to ask for help, but they also know the great personal and spiritual growth and healing that follows. They know how to respond in a loving, caring, and nonjudgmental manner. They are equipped, ready and waiting to provide the comfort and care God very much desires you to have.

If you find yourself now or in the future facing difficulties in life, don't succumb to society's norm of remaining strong and suffering alone. Take the courageous step of seeking help. Open your heart to receiving God's love and grace through another person. Our Stephen Ministry offers the opportunity of a very confidential relationship with someone who will listen to you and provide you with the care and encouragement you need, while Christ works inside to bring rest to your weary, burdened heart.